This book will help you find peace and forgiveness. The ability to forgive yourself and the abuser is found through Love. Love is a grace given by God, and we have the ability to share it. We must learn that love is an action not just an emotion. We prove our love by what we do for others and how we treat them physically and verbally.
Are you trying to be home by a certain time so you don't get yelled at?
Are you always making excuses why you can't spend time with friends or family?
A controlling partner is a form of abuse. God gave us dominion over land not man.